I want to generalize this Meta question into a discussion about when it's appropriate to edit someone else's question vs opening a new, similar, question with a different focus.
Cole's Notes: a new user asked a highly personal, narrow-focused, and opinion-based question. It resulted in good discussion, but was ultimately closed as off-topic. In an attempt to save the question from closure, one of our experienced users made substantial edits to the question.
My question is: Under what circumstances is it appropriate for someone other than the OP to make substantial edits to the question?
In the linked question @WhiteWinterWolf went to great pains to preserve the original question, kudos, but I'm afraid that this sets a dangerous precedent for retroactively changing the intent of a question.
I liked this answer on Meta Parenting SE which proposed that the correct course of action is to close the original question, and ask a new question with the template
Inspired by [this other question], I'd like to know about [less restricted thing]...